Failure of Succes?

How do you choose you path?
What do you see? Failure or Success?
If you want to see, see this articles first before move on.


Do You See Failure or Success?
by: Heather Dominick



I remember attending a meditation workshop with Mark Epstein, a well-known 'Buddhist psychologist.' He told a story about a meeting he had with Ram Dass, spiritual teacher and author, where Ram Dass had asked Mark Epstein about his work with his patients. As Mark talked about his work, Ram Dass interrupted him and asked, "Do you see them as already healed?"

I was so struck by this story. As a coach and healer of businesses, I saw the clarity in this question. So often as solo-service professionals it is easy to focus on our success by looking at ourselves (what we are doing, creating, visualizing, etc.), but the results are incredible when we turn the focus on those that we serve.

What do you see when you look at your clients or customers? Do you see failure or success?

When I worked as a high school teacher--in moments when my students were working on their own--I would say to myself, "The light in me sees the light in you." I really felt that. I could see my students succeeding long before they could see it or could even venture to believe it. However, I knew as their teacher it was my duty to hold that vision and energy for them and then guide them through the action steps of getting there. It always worked. I have countless high school teaching success stories.

I see that same (if not more--I've learned a lot in the past few years) success for the private and Boot Camp clients I work with now. I literally see them as a successful magazine owner, professional organizer, coach, meditation expert, Feng Shui practitioner...and the list goes on. It continues to work.

I ask you to begin to apply this to your own business. Here are 3 steps to begin SEEING success in those that you serve.

1)Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.

In Dr. Wayne Dyer's book, The Power of Intention, he sites that, "It turns out that at the tiniest subatomic level, the actual act of observing a particle changes the particle." This is a clear example of energy affecting energy. If I look at you and see your success, then you begin to create more of and be success! How great is that?

So when speaking to a prospect, customer, or client, instead of questioning your abilities (wondering if you'll get the sale or joining them in their woes), the most powerful action you can take is to change the way you are looking at the situation. See them as happy, joyful, peaceful, well, successful...and more. You will be effecting a change that will result in more success and abundance for the both of you. (It feels so much better than worry and doubt!)

2)Be constantly giving.

The energy of success is constantly giving and the supply is limitless. When you can come from this place in your own business, you begin to attract more into your life.

I know when I first heard this, it was hard for me to grasp. Mostly, because I used to come from a place of giving, but have one eye immediately on making sure that I was compensated and at the same time convinced that I wouldn't be. Guess what? I wasn't and I felt a whole lot of resentment at the same time.

When I shifted my attention to giving for the sake of the success of those that I was serving and simultaneously confidently took care of what I needed for myself and my business (instead of waiting for someone else to do just do it), there was more success ALL around.

3)Detach from the outcome.

When you are able to SEE success, you don't need to be attached to the outcome because you KNOW that it's going to be successful. Whenever you are caught up in accumulating (I have to get this client; I have to sell to this customer), then you lose sight of what your main goal is--to see the success of those that you serve.

Find out exactly what's going on for the person that you're speaking to. Ask them and ask yourself, what do they need? The answer to this question is usually multi-layered. (For example, prospects that come to me may need more income from their businesses, but they also need to move through the blocks they've unconsciously set up for themselves that's keeping them from getting more money). So, you then SEE them as getting their needs fully met and begin the process of working with that person, so you can help make it happen.

Call To Action:

1) Ask yourself, how do I see my prospects, clients, or customers? Be honest. Just let the answer come. No judgment. It will give you a lot of information.

2) With whatever answer you get now, ask yourself, "How can I improve?" How can I see this situation differently?

3) For one day focus only on those you serve and their success. Write down the difference in how you feel, the results that your clients get, and anything else that pops up.


About The Author
Heather Dominick

Ready to move through your own business barriers and blocks while being held in the highest energy or support and success by a powerful group of like-minded entrepreneurs? Yes? Then join the EnergyRICH® Business Boot Camp. Here's where we cover every piece of the inner (the energetical) and the outer (practical) approach to building a successful business. http://www.energyrichbootcamp.com

Linking Campaign- The most top to-do list!

If you want achieve this field, you must have a strong connection with all people.
How do you make connection? By make linking campaign.
Here is how linking campaign should be start.


How to Start a Linking Campaign
by Torgeir Sunnarvik

Getting links to a new website without Google page rank can be difficult and sometimes nearly impossible. Most of the websites that have a good page rank in the first place don't link back to sites without page rank. Some of the webmasters won't link back to sites without a page rank of 4 or more.

Everybody knows that link popularity is one of the most important factors for getting high search engine rankings. So getting links in to your site should be one of your main targets in your everyday work on your site.

I struggled hard in the beginning. I sent hundreds of link requests every day. If I was lucky I got one link back. It was just too much work without getting anything in return. Now I know that I should have done things a little different. First of all I should have started out by sending my link to web directories, instead of using my time asking for links from webmasters that most of the time don't link back.

Second: Writing articles about the theme of my site. This seems to be the best way of getting links and targeted traffic. In the beginning it can be a little hard to find things to write about. The main thing is to write about the theme of your site. For instance, writing about dogs when your site is about cats won't get you the visitors that you want.

When you write an article that has some relevance to your site, you will get targeted visitors when they click the link at the bottom of your article. And by using your targeted keywords in the link description, you will get higher link popularity.

Including your link in various web directories is often the easiest way of getting good links to your site. Many of the directories are free and don't require a reciprocal link.

Here are some websites with lists of web directories:

http://www.isedb.com/
Featuring major directories, targeted and directories from all over the world. This site is updated every week with new directories.

http://info.vilesilencer.com/main.php?rock=freelista.php
An alphabetical list of free directories. It also shows the page rank for each site.

Some sites to send your article:

http://www.ideamarketers.com/
A very high traffic site with high page rank.

http://thephantomwriters.com/x.pl/tpw/index.html
This site offer a paid distribution service of your articles. It is worth every penny. Your article and link is spread all over the Internet.

There are many other linking strategies that you can use to get targeted traffic to your site. One of the ebooks that I recommend about linking is the "Power Linking 2: Evolution." I learned almost everything I know about linking from this ebook.

Copyright © 2005 Torgeir Sunnarvik, Norway

About Torgeir: Torgeir Sunnarvik is the owner and webmaster of http://www.everypleasures.com/. His site offers free downloadable ebooks, ebooks with resell rights.
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Golden Rules That Will Take Your Web Site To The Top.

You can follow the example how your page can be indexed by google fast.
Only you must have some guts to do all of this.


There are several billion pages added to the web daily. One trillion unique URLs are searched every day by Google alone. Figures like this scare the average Jo-Blow off. However, Don't be discouraged. There are a few golden rules that will absolutely guarantee your success on the Internet.

Every successful cyber space entrepreneur wants to see their site as No.1 on the Search Engines. This requires several things must be adhered to if you are to achieve your dream. Good content and hard work need to be the major cornerstones of Internet success, plus learning to think outside the box. While the Internet is based on logic, it is often the illogical that takes you to the top. It may take only one whacky idea that works, to propel your site to the mind-dizzying heights of success. You can look no further than the four golden qualities of Patience, Passion, Perseverance and Discipline. Without these you will be just another number in the long queue of those who overestimate the short term results of their website and underestimate the long term results. The net result being, just as the tide is about to turn, they quit. They become disillusioned and abandon their project, just about the time the harvest is about to roll in. They abandon their dream.

Much has been written about long keyword tails etc. The secret is to find words which are high traffic but have low competition. However, even when you have what you firmly believe to be a prospective goldmine in keywords, you still have to put in the hours to make the site a success.

It seemed a fabulous idea to launch Win a Resort, with its once in a lifetime Blue Moon Opportunity, but we were totally on our own. No one had done anything like raffling a whole resort on the Internet, let alone a luxury boutique resort on a tropical island in the South Pacific. While we had no competition, we had buyer resistance. The prize of Seachange Lodge Resort was too good to be true. It had to be another Internet scam.

Full of enthusiasm we built the version number one. It was in a simple blog format, but it worked quite well. We managed to get it rise to a page ranking No.3 on Google, only three months after launch. We were so proud of what we had achieved, we felt It was time to start to rebuild a new stand-alone site in Dreamweaver. This was quite a challenge on its own.

Of course, as with most sites which are rebuilt, our page ranking dramatically disappeared. At the same time the Merchant Bank, which processed the credit cards online, was caught in the USA financial fallout. For three and a half agonizing months, it was offline. There could be no sales of tickets and we were never really sure the bank would come back. The disaster was enhanced by the fact that selling Blue Moon Opportunity raffle tickets on the Internet, which is classed as being High Risk. Very few companies will process credit cards, for what they wrongly class as being a lottery.

The word was out. Everyone was saying our project Win a Resort had failed. Then three things happened. We regained our spot of page rank 3 on Goggle, the merchant bank came back online and we did a test run for our sites. These were the results:

1.We typed winaresort into Google. Total number of references 1,970. Only at slot 120 was there one small break.
2.Wendy Tendys - 4,100 references. Slot 113 before there is a break
3.Wendy Stenberg-Tendys - We hold up to slot 94 straight, out of 2,900 references. 4.Lyn Thomas (our author name) We hold up to slot 27 without a break out of 1,460 references.
5.Seachange Lodge - we hold the first 19 slots out of 76,100 references.
6.YouMe Support Foundation - We hold the first 20 spots before there is a break, with a lot more spots following on. Total number of references 349,000.
7.Blue Moon Opportunity - We hold 6 slots out of 10 on the first page of Google, 866,000 references.
8.Win a resort - We have the first two slots on page one out of 32,500,000 references.
9.Tropical Islands - we hold slot number 27 out of 2,590,000 10.Wendy.winaresort - Our new blog only opened up a couple of weeks ago, has a full page on Google already.

From our stats we see that Yahoo, Google and MSN Search Engine Spiders are all over us, picking up our new material as soon as we post it. The main point to all this is that you dare to dream and dare to dream big. You need to fight passionately for that dream and don't quit. Put in the long hard hours and you too will take your rightful place among the successful entrepreneurs of the Internet.

About the Author

Dr Wendy and husband Rick are CEO's of YouMe Support Foundation and Child Trust Fund (http://youmesupport.org), providing non-repayable high school education grants for underprivileged kids in the Outer Islands of Vanuatu.